EVER THOUGHT OF MARRYING YOURSELF FIRST ??

 

 I can hear the protests already, but just calm down for a second, alright ?

A dear friend of mine got married last week - completely out of the blue - and posted the pictures online..
That was shocking to me ! Because she was the girl I went out clubbing in NYC and we were rocking it, to say the least - we were on top of the world ! Back in the days she was never the one who talked about settling down or finding 'the one', I guess none of us were.. But she did tell me that she got kind of tired of picking through people and that there were no good guys left in this world the last time we spoke, so.. what's so surprising ? - The brainwashed commitment to the institution of MARRIAGE.

First of all, who invented it ? Jesus was never condemned to it, was he ? Where do we get this idea from ??
My guess is - from the bible, still. The most provocative and misinterpreted book that has ever been written. The translationS are so screwed up it could mention the Kardashian sisters in it at some point.


'Do not kill' and 'Do not steal' and all of the other 'sins' are not meant to be clear instructions but rather an inscentive to ponder on the 'why'. Just stay with me on this - it'll get better ,)
Let's take stealing, for example. When you think you have to steal, you believe that you do not have something and that another has more of it or all of it, so you have to run over there, where there is more, to deprive another of it in order to become happy. Now think about this for a second. Imagine we all had to steal in order to get happy. The stuff would just move around, wouldn't it ?? Yeah, so there is actually PLENTY FOR EVERYBODY. If you don't have bread you could either get it or...make it, right ? So how do we make money and how do we get money apart from stealing it ?? Why must we not steal ?

Well, not because we get punished, explizitly. But because with our thought that we do not have enough of something we actually demonstrate our belief in lack of things and injustice. But BELIEF can move mountains, can't it ? Of course, depending on how strong it is. So the actual punishnent is the life you will lead according to those beliefs. I can not stretch this right now just to stay on the main topic but you are welcome to tweet & comment. This example should simply demonstrate the false premises of the interpretations of any written material. In this case - the bible.

My point is, just because someone sat down one day and invented the marriage for the purpose of  the divorce case money lottery with a spurious drapery of  benefits as the dangling carrot doesn't mean you have to follow that lead, people ! Yes, I mean you - don't you see that ?


Where are the independant & bright people who are able to make a contribution to this world and live a happy life without doing what every other person does ?

How about CELEBRATING YOU AND YOUR VALUES AND MAKE VOWLS TO YOURSELF instead of putting a lifelong commitment on somebody else TO MAKE YOU HAPPY ? Because if that's what marriage is, I don't want it. And who cares who I'm involved with, anyway ?


Men are smarter, they discovered a long time ago that this doughnut's ingredients have long expired.
Bachelors like George Clooney understand that they can be happy without a personal leash around their neck. And let's face it, marriage is limiting. But maybe that's the kind of marriage that is dying out so a new one can emerge out of a centuries long struggle lived by so many. I, for myself, still believe in life without it.


Oh don't get me wrong, I see the benefits of a relationship and cherishing each other and, of course, love and I do understand that you might actually love someone so much that you want to go all the way, officially  and have no second thoughts about putting the last seal on your lives, but... WHY ?

Life has so much more to offer...


LOOOVE, Me ❤

WHAT WOULD YOU DO ???

source: flickr - photo by karmenrose

What would you do if you would wake up outside, with no recollection whatsoever of who you are and how old, what you have done so far and no documents on you ?




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REGRETS...

I just relized, no matter what I am doing right now - I will never regret it. I won't. SO I might as well do things that I like, anyway ! Yey!  And I'll tell you why I believe no one should regret anything in their lives.

I believe that any experience that we live is a learning experience - you set your priorities, you realize something and you move on with greater knowledge - it is impossible to learn less, you ALWAYS LEARN MORE!

Which is the reason why we have to live - to gain experience, to learn and to get smarter - wouldn't you agree with me ? And sometimes we wait longer until we learned our lessons - those are the times of de-spiration or desperation - because we ignored and put off our own feelings and emotions for so long that now the only way to learn is through negative experience. IT IS ALSO THE TIME OF GROWTH.

Les Brown says: 'IF YOU CAN LOOK UP, YOU CAN GET UP' and he is 100% right. I've lived it and I still do. Now, in times when there's a problem IGNORING ISN'T THE ANSWER, BUT a more positive and productive approach is one with less worry and emotional turmoil.

Getting professional help f.e., be it financial advice, psychologycal assistance or what other services a more educated and experienced person can provide to help another, is a very effective and forward way to do it. At the same time it is important to know that there IS a solution to any situation and by aknowledging that YOU ARE LOOKING UP ALREADY. If you're reading this post, you are, anyway ,).

There is no such thing as a dead lock. And while it might seem TO YOU like one, a professional might extend your view on things so much so that you would learn to see them in a different light or from a different angle. And that would boost your confidence.

First of all because you would be FOCUSING ON the SOLUTION.
And secondly because you would be doing what is REQUIRED to come to it -  AKNOWLEDGING  YOUR OWN abilities in a sober and put together state of mind without digging yourself in a deep emotional hole.
So that was easy. Also, by doing that you juxtapose your beliefs about taking action in opposition to your ability to do it, which is the driving power behind seeking advice from a person who knows better or - best.

And profoundly speaking, knowing and believing that you can't do anything from YOUR POINT OF VIEW but ignoring those feelings by trying to convince yourself that you can make it on your own wouldn't have gotten you very far, anyway, except deeper in the same spiral of thought that brought you the problem in the first place.
In conclusion to that, you SAVE TIME AND ENERGY and probably money - efficient work and a focused mind are tools no one should ever discard of - it makes life so much easier and quite a bit more enjoyable ,)).

Coming back to the topic of regrets - you'll learn your lessons one way or another. But it's BETTER NOT TO WAIT until the roof  is falling in.

NEVER IGNORE YOUR OWN FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND DO NOT FORGET THEM - REACT QUICKLY AND FOCUS ON THE SOLUTION TO IMPROVE ANY SITUATION THAT YOU DESIRE TO CHANGE - DO ANYTHING THAT IS IN YOUR POWER - WHAT YOU DESIRE SHALL COME TO YOU.

That's it for tonight,
MY THANKS TO BRUCE JENNER & 'PEOPLE WHO INSPIRE US' ON FACEBOOK, THEREFORE THE FOUNDERS OF FACEBOOK AND THE NASA FOR INVENTING THE INTERNET. I LOVE ALL OF YOU, PROFOUNDLY, AND IT WAS ALL MENT TO BE,

LOOVE, ME ❤

I DID NOT SEE THAT ONE COMING...

Thank You Very Much, Matt.
LOOVE, ME ❤

START LIVING THROUGH YOUR HEART ❤❤

IS THERE A FIX ON ANYTHING ?

Or is change possible ? Still talking about romantic and personal relationships..well, we'll stick with romantic ones for now. Looking at a picture of  technical tools, it made me think of mending broken things together and whether it is possible in a relationship. I think it is.

Therefore you'll need a tool, two broken pieces and lots of time and energy. Patience, probably, too and you will  need another very sticky little thing referred to as CLEAR GOAL and an INTENTION that is at least as clear as the goal so you wouldn't mislead yourself. That would be the goal of mending a falling - I wouldn't say apart - relationship, but falling. It's like there's no real separation of the pieces but they are holding together by the last bit of the extant connection and a good will.

Then I thought, what do we require when we have two pieces to glue together ? Well, first we need to make sure we have the matching two pieces and they are really meant to be glued together. Like, say, a vase brakes in two pieces - you can collect them and mend - no biggie. If the vase brakes in 5 pieces and one falls out the window and brakes into 20 other ones - very much a biggie and it's probably not meant to be. Same thing with those pieces that are shaped so differently there is no way they'd fit together. Better off bying a different vase and making sure it's a solid one.

Going further in the thought I thought of my university time and the things we learned in and about chemistry. Particularly about two things: what combines with what and how  and  what do you do when putting two things together to unite them (surface chemistry, very interesting thing, you should check it out).

First and foremost - Like Attracts Like . Oil goes with oil, water with water etc. And second, when putting things together using adhesive, YOU FIRST NEED TO CLEAN THE SURFACE to make sure the things are going to hold together for longer than long - for an eternity. This requires some management by perception and sensitivity, no overloading of the repared section and a good eye on it at all times. But first you need to make sure the surface is clean, or - clean it.
Which means, speaking figuratively, to observe the dirt on both sides and really come close to it and probably closer than you would like to in order to understand and analyse what it is, where it came from and to choose the right surface-active agent to wipe it clean, scrub it down or what is otherwise necessary to make sure we have a good new surfaces to work on and with to make them stick together. Now that wasn't as figuratively as promised, was it ?

That's why I keep reminding you to get rid of your 'STAINS ON THE TABLE CLOTH' first before starting something new with the same partner or not, but in this case, WITH the same one. And I realize this sounds more like a piece of advice for women, at least the overall theme of it. But I actually mean BOTH SIDES..of the pieces to be prepared and repared..

So what does it really mean ? I'll tell you: Talking without blame or any connotation of it and as objectively as possible, avoiding word collaborations like 'You Always'...do/say/promise - it's never true and you know it plus you only say that because you piled it up and now it has to come out - the anger that is.. Guess why ?
Failure of communication: at the right time, in the right emotional place and the appropriate environment. Why do you think people burst out ? They are dud to communicate their needs and opinions successfully to their partner. Most commonly they don't do their part at all, preferring to sit it out.

And now comes the shocker: the actual MEANING OF the word COMMUNICATION, according to wikipedia, implies that valuable information is shared successfully, which means the other party actually does understand what you mean by saying all these words with mimics and body language you give out, even the tone of your voice counts.

It gets even more interesting. I found out that there is a concrete term called the Communication Noise - it represents the obsticles in getting the information across, which can be actual noise, hindering the recipient to literally hear you, because of construction work, for instance. OR - an existant psychologycal noise such as attitude, great emotions and other negative feelings and connotation. It distracts your counterpart from focusing and prevents from understanding you alltogether. Subjectivity actually may very well draw you apart rather than together. Save yourself, avert the drama. Prepare yourself  like for a school report before you talk the talk:  STRUCTURE your THOUGHT, make NOTES and memorize everything you want to say until it becomes rote. Objectivity and a CLEAR INTENTION to improve your communication with each other and therefore understanding, can be your friends forever. And they are.

Remember why you got together in the first place, what attracted and allured you to each other, ponder upon that thought. SEE THE GOOD AND THE GOOD WILL SEE(K) YOU. When you do that, when you get rid of all the obsticles in your way and remove all the dirt - you will be able to start off from a clean slate so you can glue yourselves together for good ALL BY YOURSELVES (as long as both want to participate).

HAPPY TIMES, no ?

GOOD DAY TO EVERYONE AND GOOD NIGHT,

LOOOVE, ME ❤

It's so hard sometimes..

But I'm harder, and I don't mean the outer shell, I mean the Inner Zen of my Soul. And therefore, my mind.

I'll tell you what this post is about..

You know, sometimes, when people SNAP and you can see their struggle, realizing they are tripping themselves up like that ? And you find yourself trying to figure out which way to help & assist ? Yap.

I decided to write about this.

There is one expression I know that fits it perfectly,.. No, first of all .. I HATE DRAMA. I don't care what it is you dealing with, but let me out of it. And so far, DRAMA SEEMS TO HATE ME, TOO. So we never see each other. Not so recently.

I know 2012 is coming up and as a cleansing process all the stinky stuff is coming up to the surface in each and every one of us as well as on planet Earth in general.
But if I would follow that thought I'd be sitting somewhere all by myself with a piece of bread and peace of mind, just in order to avoid all of it. So moving on with the topic.
Those same people who snap... Oh boy I just realized it does sound a lot like complaining, but there's a point. Hold on.. those people who snap at you

                                           THEY SUFFER THE MOST

They can't forgive themselves for what they've done, so they are embarrassed to even look at you or they are busy to make it look like it's your fault. Anyway, they're ego tripping instead of looking at their own behaviour and belief systems. And of course they would never apologize. EVER.
I had this boyfriend once, the one I've mentioned at the beginning of my writings, - and I am not lying to you -  it took him 5 DAYS to apologize for something  that happened out of  a very small communication problem. I assure you, it was not my fault  ,) but it was simple insanity .. the word overreaction is not suitable to describe what followed this jumble... The reaction was more of a stenchy explosion of words, attitude and facial expressions. Let me tell you, no horror movie could compete with that.  The smell of that stenchy mist was the kind that settles in and stays, polluting everything around. Let alone  the KIND OF ENERGY that follows it. So at some point you just see people with smudged faces everywhere. Yeah, that kind.

Oh btw. the German saying goes 'To draw the devil on the wall', meaning to be afraid of the things that aren't even there, but you expect them so much they appear to you on the wall and if they don't - you simply draw them.
Helps so much..you know.

The smelly part is the worst. People don't talk, avoid eye contact.. all kinds of stuff.
And mostly, they do know they were wrong. If they don't it's actually the worst scenario. Get out of it now.
And I mean it. You are not an accredited psychologist  - unless you are - nobody's paying you for your time and God knows what the results are gonna be like..PLEASE..

I'm not even saying APOLOGIZE, although I've mentioned it before.. But can you just not make such a big DUCKING deal out of it ?!! MOVE ON! You screamed, you crashed furniture, you slapped someone - take your time to analyse everything, but GET THE HEAVEN OVER IT ALREADY! No one can stand a person who looks stinky, because he probably feels stinky, who's behaviour is stinky and who IS STINKY in all kinds of ways as a result of it ALL the time...
Because of something that happened once. And now it's the end of the world.

                          WHAT THE BARK IS WRONG WITH YOU ?

I've heard all kinds of stories,.. They want you out of the apartment, they wouldn't give away no cigarettes no more, it is over. UNTIL ALL BECOMES NORMAL AGAIN ! Like in a week or two.
WHY WAIT for such a long time to pass ?!
What's  happened to people, becoming so rude and inattentive to each other ?!

There's always a person who can take more. The good news is, it is the person who has the POWER TO CHANGE THE WORLD. Yes, I mean it - not only and simply one particular situation or person. The world. So give yourself some credit if you find yourself being that person.
Because THE LIGHT always brightens up a darkened room. And everybody going in a dark room looks for the LIGHT, NATURALLY..
In the earlier days that someone was usually the wife . Them girls had to be supportive of every junk the man had to pull on the family, be there and never say a word against his ideas.

Women, other than men, are more bound to nature and  are mostly more in their element at home, within the family - on the Inside.  Also, inside the mind. The men, therefore, have more experience on the Outside - socially and professionally. They seem to be at their best as soon as they set one foot out of the door. Which makes me think of the antique saying

                                               'HOW WITHIN, SO WITHOUT'

because maybe that is the main principal of the family and at the same time the base for the personality that each child develops and shows off outside the family later in life. How within family, so without. The outside always mirrors the Inside.

Back to the present the submissive crowd is well spread through both gender types of the Earthy billions.
Still leaving us with the question: 'WHAT'S WRONG ?' Why those who seem to be completely out of their minds and GAGA have to mess everything up ? Although I love GAGA, her song 'Born this way' immediately comes to mind, which doesn't put me anywhere near the solution to this problem..
But why is it, that you always happen to know at least one insane person who keeps appearing in your life one way or another and YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT. WHY ?
Maybe that is because there was something not intact inside of their family as they were little children. So they turned out this way. OR, regardless of their past, they are still PEOPLE WHO CAN TEACH or show others something JUST LIKE ANYONE OF US.

You see, the questioning is getting bigger here already..

Which makes me return to the point I was trying to make earlier but then forgot : WHAT IF WE REALLY ARE self representive in the personalities of those who we meet ? It would mean I am insane to a shredded fraction, right.. BUT then again, you can not possibly attract everyone into your life just because you share an attitude!!!. SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST PLAIN NUTS. And nuts is the last thing you need in your life 'cause it's contageous. It has nothing to do with YOU when people are nuts, it's their twisted brain body that causes them to be so, NOT YOU, trust me.
So LEARN YOUR LESSON QUICKLY AND LAVE, leave now unless .. forget about it, just LEAVE.

ALSO: Stop trying to change everybody and talk to them.
Some people will let you do that, some not. If you really care about yourself think twice before engaging in some sort of remedy talk - they might not get you and you'll get upset. I would take a second to think about it, though if the pattern seems to reappear in your life...

YOU CAN ONLY TRY TO HELP another in case you see clearly HOW you can do it. If you don't know that much at the moment you can always talk later. But you need a strategy and you must not forget about it. We tend to forget about things or choose not to do anything about them because they feel uncomfortable. NEVERTHELESS, CHANGE HAPPENS WHEN PEOPLE WANT & DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, so if we forget things stay the same or get worse.

It's so sad though. You see people getting in their own way sometimes, just like I did yesterday. And you need to be reallly smart not to act on your first impulses but to breathe in deeply and ponder upon your own thoughts and solutions to the problem first. Sometimes you'll, and sometimes you won't. But whatever you do, put some space and time between you and that person or situation to reflect and learn from that experience.

Because one thing I've learned is that you can't be your best in that red hot minute. Yes you can, but you have to be as skilled as an ace..
So don't be too hard on yourself or on any other participant in the story, but DO IT BETTER next time. You can PRACTICE IT over and over in your mind. Reassemble your own definitions and ask yourself one very important question:

HOW IS THIS BENIFICIAL FOR ME, THAT I ACT THE WAY I DO WHEN THE SITUATION OCCURES ? IT IS VERY IMPORTANT.


HAVE A GOOD TIME Y'ALL,

LOOVE, ME ❤
,)

                POINT: HAVE A BIG HEART AND THE WORLD WILL BENEFIT FROM IT

IS IT WORTH IT ?

                                                                    ipaintmymind.org

Do you belong to the type of people who have people from their past - recent or not- still active
in their brain ?

I caught myself having virtual conversations with some folks from the past, arguing -- and #winning lol
But that was not the point. It is, though, how far and how much we are caught up in our past and is that time making up more hours in our lives than the future ?

I've heard this statement, 'YOU CAN NOT MOVE FORWARD BY KEEPING ON LOOKING BACK',
I think it's pretty awesome, especially if you point that out using the analogy of sitting on a bike - impossible. I hate that word. It's true, you can, but it's very difficult and doesn't make it quite worthwhile.

                        EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE: but is it really worth it ?

I'm talking about people who have left the stage of your life, one way or another - what are you aiming for, repeating those times in your mind like a well known and loved video cassete ? We all attract what we think about. The phrase goes differently, in original version, but that's ok, I don't wanna repeat anything, it's my own way of saying it.  Why does it still matter to you to have those conversations ? Hoping on the possibility of changing the past ?
Winning the future ? What ?

It's stupid, that's what it is. It's one of  the bad habits of humanity. One of many. Hanging up the phone and THEN thinking you should have said better words.
I understand why people would remind themselves of the good times, looking at those pictures, smelling the smells..that's a good thing - it makes you feel better..happYer..sets you back even and puts you in that happy state again.
A child knows that things are correct because he feels happy. Isn't that wonderful ?

But why use it in a negative way ?

We do that waay too often, not realizing that we are creating our future with those thoughts, activating old energies that are useless, somehow. Why is it that we want to fight every battle to the very end ? Is that an ego thing ? Yes, I know the answer.

What are the reasons ? Still mad ?? WORSE SCENARIO. You shouldn't be. If you would spend half of the time imagining miraculous & good scenarios rather than the ones you have in your mind when someone's 5 minutes late.. Let Me tell you - it would turn around your whole life. In a positive way.

You should let go quicker, easier, that's better, it's normal. 'Are you not normal ??' the question arises.. No, it is not what I wanna emphasize on.
It's just that I'm realizing that we are born to have an easy life, that's all. It's not the plan to struggle. Get a piece of paper out, write what you have done wrong, work on the best solution - done! It'll be your script for the next time - this is how we learn.
It's necessary to learn one way or another, you choose the way. It's up to you, really.

AND  FINALLY, LET GO, PLEASE, you're doing yourself a favor with it - not anybody else, that's right, YOU!

To learn how to forgive and to let go is the emotionally wittiest 8-turns-ahead chess move you make TODAY. In the game of emotional chess or something..Actually it's an energy thing. You rid yourself of things that are not fitting YOU, AN EVEREMITTING LIGHT STRUCTURE GOD HAS CREATED HIMSELF !!!

THERE IS NO ROOM FOR darkness, apathy and insensitivity - none of the above fits.. with the idea of LIGHT. You know it deep within. Yet it is our biggest challenge to brake out of the old racetrack of thinking and brake new ground in becoming deliberately creative by consciously directing or editing a more visual and audible, broader and fuller, more saturated version of our lifes.

It's easy. Ask Charlie Sheen, he'll tell you. Not in your radius ? How about Dr. Wayne Dyer ? My thanks to him on trying. A great man, check it out yourself: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRAewRQl_ZY

Abraham Hicks' 'YOU CAN BE, DO OR HAVE ANYTHING YOU WANT' is a very nifty statement. The key is to apply it. And it depends on the way - whether you want to apply it in a negative manor - hence the theme of this article - or in a more positive and fulfilling one that will bring you the benefits you can only dream of. And that were probably longed for by you for a very very long time..

Saw this movie 'SAY YES' ? Somewhat like that. The Universe is inclusive, too...

PLEASE DECIDE TODAY WHAT IT IS YOU CARE ABOUT  AND WOULD LIKE TO SEE IN YOUR LIFE. YES, TODAY..AAAND ACT ON IT. THAT'S RIGHT!

Told you, easy ,))

Why you think ? Oh, I donnou, maybe 'cause you get more full-filled and happy doing it ?
It's an important decision, too..

My own statement on this: 'DO THE BEST YOU CAN DO TO BECOME THE BEST YOU CAN BE'.
It pretty much wraps it up.
Follow through. Exploit your abilities in the moment, max 'em out. TAKE EVERYTHING out of the situation and do the best you can RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW, in this particular window of time and of your OWN possibilities - DO IT - as simple as that.

Now you shouldn't become evil or anything like that. I'm talking about intuitive knowledge about what you need to do when you need to do it and then simply doing it (not my words) !

I think I'm gonna have to max this out in my book ,))

HAVE FUN,

MUCH LOVE, ME ,)

No plant grows without proper care

                                                 


Ok, maybe they do, but they're not pretty. I'm talking Orchids and Amaryllises.

I'll walk you through the thought process behind it.

I felt compelled to take a walk today, it was such a sunny day here and I couldn't bare the retrospective of not having done it. So there I was, walking the whole route I am usually jogging through and I realized something.
Yesterday as I did what I call 'a forest meditation' presented by Darryl Anka, my coin was bigger and made of gold this time, but it was still the same friggin' coin with the carved image you see on a dime. There I was, wondering why.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSUNPw1YHLU

It occured to me that perhaps the reason may lie in the people who surround me and in their words, that perpetually, yet not intentionally are blocking my growth.

I do realize that I am playing my part in it, as well.. But still, it brought me to the idea that this kind of environment is more than toxic. So if I would go somewhere where I am surrounded by like-minded, mostly positive people I would GROW and turn TO THE LIGHT, spreading my petals and aiming higher. Like I never would if I didn't see those circumstaces.
Just like a plant in its natural direction of growing.

For plants in general it means that they get clean water, are placed in a solid and nourishing ground and get the right amount of light. For people it means that they get empowerment, are always sought after, keep the right direction and are surrounded by love and care. It is then, that they - or we - get to grow high, aim high and feel the support of the universe by the people around us. They see the good in us, therefore we love, and try to see the good in ourselves. YOU GET WHAT YOU PREPARE FOR.
AND YOU ALWAYS GET WHAT YOU EXPECT.

Always try to see the good in people, remind yourself of their most favorable traits. We do not raise children to tell them one day, or on daily basis, that they are good for nothing or will never become anything, a nothing.
It hurts Me to write these words. Maybe we should give up our perfectionism and let people do their things the way they do it, maybe there is no universal law of doing things that works for everyone.
Oh and on the side note: please DO THINGS you want to do AS SOON AS you get the idea to do them - IT'S ALWAYS TOO LATE FOR LATER.

Don't let yourself to be put down or diminished. Nobody has ever grown from being degraded.
Several dictums come to my mind, one of them by A. Einstein:

                      'IF YOU JUDGE A FISH BY ITS ABILITY TO CLIMB A TREE,
                       IT WILL LIVE ITS WHOLE LIFE BELIEVING THAT IT IS STUPID'

People oftentimes laugh at others that do things they have never done or in a different way - it's obvious that it's residual scepticism of a cave man. The real wisdom lies in doing those things anyway. Because someone will always laugh, but when they see that it works, those same people adopt rather quickly to it.
WE ALL need to learn something in this lifetime and even beyond it. To look for inspiration rather than di-spiration is the way to big accomplishments. Another quote, by Babe Ruth:

                       'IT'S HARD TO BEAT A PERSON WHO NEVER GIVES UP'

                                                    NEVER GIVE UP.

                        YOU HAVE TO MOTIVATE YOURSELF. ALWAYS.

I once read in a book that when a child does something silly you should tell it will grow out of it.
That is empowerment.

So again, if you want to experience a more positive life, you have to TRAIN YOUR EXPECTATION.Towards people and situations. Do Focus Wheels - I don't care - BUT DO SOMETHING.

ALWAYS LOVE, ME.