And again, I'm reassured..

                                                                
                                                       photo by Lars Inge Gundersen

I just watched  'Married in a Year' by Patty Stanger and had to sit back for a while on that topic.
I get reassured every now and then on the things I've figured out years ago ! ..and not to mention things that are all over the internet if you just type in the right combination of words into your search machine ..!!

Thing No. 1:  MEN ARE LIKE CLAY IN YOUR HANDS.
                     YOU WANT A BETTER MAN ? MAKE HIM FEEL LIKE ONE !!!

Should I just go on with the numbers or make it a series of posts ? Hm. I'll stick with the first one for now.

No man in his right mind, who feels appreciated and loved, maybe even a little needed
WOULD EVER even THINK OF or consider to look for some OTHER GIRL to date and live with and what not.
                                                                      NOT ONE.

The thing with the right mind is tricky, because you actually attract exactly the same type of people that mirror .., well..You ! That's right, no exuses at this point are allowed to be pronounced or even thought. IT'S ALL ON YOU! This time or even FROM THIS TIME ON...!!! You think I'm kiddn' ? Well nou, I am NOT.

We all know this girl who always gets caught up with the same kind of guy and it never seems to end.
You know what I'm talking about, he doesn't treat her right, doesn't buy the right flowers, she gets upset and so on and so on. BLAH. BORING at some point.
I know one girl who likes to tell a story ölike that. She's my best friend, I love her but who are we kiddin' ?

Interesting and even more surprising point in this one is that IT ALL STARTS WITH OURSELVES.
It's the relationship you bare to yourself that is the absolute crutial and prerogatory  one to any other you might have in your life.

Patty's right.You should get off the horse and stay away from the dating scrubble for a while to figure out things about yourself and not be hasty about it.
Which only makes sense if you seriously want to rethink and restructure your life. Last thing you want to drag along is your old Papierkorb (look it up, it's German) 'cause REMEMBER: The amount of trash you bring along will fit exactly with the trash your new boy is going to take with HIM. It's pretty krass, but oh so true. You do attract people into your life with some stuff to match up yours almost exactly to make a 100% count. Listen to Connie Podesta.

If you want a nice guy with no rubbish going on behind the curtain - you better get rid of yours first.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJ1iVtNUHng

I do realize I slightly drifted off the topic here..Let's return to it now.
If you are a perfectly balanced person, you've accomplished some great things in your life, you love your job and your relationships are 99% fine - so in essence - YOU'RE HAPPY

and you've now found THE GUY to spend your life with - YOU NEED TO MAKE HIM FEEL WORTHY! APPRECIATED, SAY THANK YOU A LOT, HAVE SOME GREAT SEX and KEEP THAT ENERGY ALIVE . And never forget the person you were as you got to know each other because this is the person he fell in love with.

Great time tonight. Wish you aalll good luck and be waiting for my book, it will come out soon ,)

LOOVE, always yours, Me ,)

http://movielab.tv/watch/63699/married_in_a_year/full