REGRETS...

I just relized, no matter what I am doing right now - I will never regret it. I won't. SO I might as well do things that I like, anyway ! Yey!  And I'll tell you why I believe no one should regret anything in their lives.

I believe that any experience that we live is a learning experience - you set your priorities, you realize something and you move on with greater knowledge - it is impossible to learn less, you ALWAYS LEARN MORE!

Which is the reason why we have to live - to gain experience, to learn and to get smarter - wouldn't you agree with me ? And sometimes we wait longer until we learned our lessons - those are the times of de-spiration or desperation - because we ignored and put off our own feelings and emotions for so long that now the only way to learn is through negative experience. IT IS ALSO THE TIME OF GROWTH.

Les Brown says: 'IF YOU CAN LOOK UP, YOU CAN GET UP' and he is 100% right. I've lived it and I still do. Now, in times when there's a problem IGNORING ISN'T THE ANSWER, BUT a more positive and productive approach is one with less worry and emotional turmoil.

Getting professional help f.e., be it financial advice, psychologycal assistance or what other services a more educated and experienced person can provide to help another, is a very effective and forward way to do it. At the same time it is important to know that there IS a solution to any situation and by aknowledging that YOU ARE LOOKING UP ALREADY. If you're reading this post, you are, anyway ,).

There is no such thing as a dead lock. And while it might seem TO YOU like one, a professional might extend your view on things so much so that you would learn to see them in a different light or from a different angle. And that would boost your confidence.

First of all because you would be FOCUSING ON the SOLUTION.
And secondly because you would be doing what is REQUIRED to come to it -  AKNOWLEDGING  YOUR OWN abilities in a sober and put together state of mind without digging yourself in a deep emotional hole.
So that was easy. Also, by doing that you juxtapose your beliefs about taking action in opposition to your ability to do it, which is the driving power behind seeking advice from a person who knows better or - best.

And profoundly speaking, knowing and believing that you can't do anything from YOUR POINT OF VIEW but ignoring those feelings by trying to convince yourself that you can make it on your own wouldn't have gotten you very far, anyway, except deeper in the same spiral of thought that brought you the problem in the first place.
In conclusion to that, you SAVE TIME AND ENERGY and probably money - efficient work and a focused mind are tools no one should ever discard of - it makes life so much easier and quite a bit more enjoyable ,)).

Coming back to the topic of regrets - you'll learn your lessons one way or another. But it's BETTER NOT TO WAIT until the roof  is falling in.

NEVER IGNORE YOUR OWN FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND DO NOT FORGET THEM - REACT QUICKLY AND FOCUS ON THE SOLUTION TO IMPROVE ANY SITUATION THAT YOU DESIRE TO CHANGE - DO ANYTHING THAT IS IN YOUR POWER - WHAT YOU DESIRE SHALL COME TO YOU.

That's it for tonight,
MY THANKS TO BRUCE JENNER & 'PEOPLE WHO INSPIRE US' ON FACEBOOK, THEREFORE THE FOUNDERS OF FACEBOOK AND THE NASA FOR INVENTING THE INTERNET. I LOVE ALL OF YOU, PROFOUNDLY, AND IT WAS ALL MENT TO BE,

LOOVE, ME ❤